Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

 Dale Carnegie 

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

Reflection: Don't go and criticize others if they talk to you about their problems just listen or even if you see others do something bad just let them do what they want. We should all just worry about ourselves and focus on ourselves nobody else. Only person who's going to be there for you is you.  


Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"

Reflection: I think this means that the way to deal with people is to just be honest all the time and sincere. We should always be honest to everybody and about everything. Should always be good and truthful with everybody. Always showing or suggesting a good and truthful character with everyone you are around. 

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way." 

Reflection:  It means that you want to get people motivated, keep them motivated, and spur them on. Motivate others to do better and to be better. Also motivate yourself 

Final Reflection: I've learned that you shouldn't have to criticize others for what they tell you if they go to you to talk or condemn or complain. Also give honesty and sincere appreciation. Always be honest with everyone and everything. Be sincere and appreciate. These three ways can actually help if you actually do what you have to do.